Love and all that jazz...

Did you ever feel your bf or your husband just made you feel like nothing.They never said anything to you but their actions and their behaviour spoke volumes.Really guys out there .IT HURTS! Like just the other day my bf just told me it's cool by him if he sees me in a months time.What? Really ? Did you just say that? You see men tend to speak in the forms of jokes ,they tend to make situations lighter to handle, in their minds.When in reality it seems to the person on the receiving end,terribly worse. In the girls mind (my mind at the time) What is he saying? He needs space,he wants alone time,is he cheating or what is happening? You see women tend to over anylise every move and word our partner tends to make or say. Yes,that might seem crazy but in reality we are little explosians, waiting to explode why- Boys you may ask? Why? Because we invested to much in you. We willingly give our time,devotion,bodies,lives and importantly our hearts. So in fact, if you skrew up -you ruin...

So after reading a couple of relationship blogs, I've come across two under lying topics-How do I get someone to love me ? and How to maintain your relationship. I think its true ,that 2 topics is the most important to human beings finding happiness and keeping it.Sometimes we feel like we chasing happiness and it won't reside with us but floats and flutters away like a butterfly.Can we keep up with that chase? I mean honestly with all the hype,media and technological interaction.Thus it can either make you better or worsen the situation we all find ourselves in. The media today depicts us to be certain catogries.You must be thin.tall,sexy,rich or intelligent.You must own a car and be able to socialise without fail.Yet we all know we aren't, perfect people living in little boxes.We just, us competing with what we envision for ourselves-that's the hardest dream to live up to- our own! So here it goes! How to find that special person.... 1. Check the company you k...

4 Ways to Maintain Attraction In A Relationship … Posted on March 28, 2011 in Advice For Guys, Relationship Advice A reader asks …. “While your advice in attracting women is some of the best I’ve seen, the problem is that the problem doesn’t stop there. The real question is: How do you maintain that attraction and sex appeal when you enter a serious relationship where maybe the goal is to get married, have kids, buy a house, consolidate finances, and live the rest of the life like two responsible adults. What do men need to do to stay sexy to their committed women, while possibly working 10 hours a day and taking care of other daily responsibilities and duties. – D ” #1 Knowing what’s really important … Awesome question! Now, I’m going to highlight where I see the problem, “How do you maintain that attraction when you enter a serious relationship where maybe the goal is to get married, have kids, buy a house, consolidate finances and live the rest of the life like two resp...

Hi guys today I am sad.I mean really sad.Guess today out there I need your advice. Let me tell you all about my relationship dilema.Well I just felt down, after chatting to my bf he refuses to come down to my place and spend some time with me.I found it so sad that my bf wont want to spend time with me.We had just recently spent a weekend away with friends and now it's back to square one.I seem to always go to his place where we never alone ,all we do is watch movies with his family,go to a mall or he plays with his sister's kids.I am sure other couples make special alone time for eachother,but for me it seems he spends most of his time -away from me even though I am there.I often wonder if this is all that there is and I should be grateful and shut up at least someone loves me.Is that love or is it just I am seriously sick of your face after ten years of dating.I want to get married so bad just to spend time alone in his company and have our own place.He responds to that sa...

Do You Like Who You See In The Mirror? Are you self-rejecting or self-accepting? When you see your reflection in the mirror, do you smile acceptingly or do you flinch and groan internally? Some people fear that liking their image in the mirror will mean that they are vain or conceited. Others reject themselves because they are measuring themselves against the fictitious standards of beauty photoshop has created. Still others reject themselves because their lives have not turned out the way they hoped they would. You can tell the difference between self-acceptance and vanity by observing your attitude toward others.  Self-acceptance does not lead you to put anyone else down in order to feel good about yourself, where vanity leads to pointing out others weaknesses in order to feel superior. Vanity and conceit are bluster to make up for and hide personal doubts. Photoshop can be used to make skin flawless, remove imperfections, add or reduce curves. But in the end it seems ...

Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers. —3 John 2 TODAY’S DARE Begin praying today for your spouse’s heart. Pray for three specific areas where you desire for God to work in your spouse’s life and in your marriage. Day 16: Love intercedes

—1 Peter 3:7 TODAY’S DARE Choose a way to show honor and respect to your spouse that is above your normal routine. It may be holding the door for her. It might be putting his clothes away for him. It may be the way you listen and speak in your communication. Show your mate that he or she is highly esteemed in your eyes. Day 15: Love is honorable Live with your wives in an understanding way . . . and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life.

Enjoy life with the wife you love all the days of your fleeting life. —Ecclesiastes 9:9 HCSB TODAY’S DARE Purposefully neglect an activity you would normally do so you can spend quality time with your spouse. Do something he or she would love to do or a project they’d really like to work on. Just be together. Day 14: Love takes delight

I have a confession to make: I look at wedding dresses online. A lot. I'm not in the market, but I just really enjoy virtually browsing through the gowns and imagining what I would look like in them. I'm guilty of doing the same with engagement rings, though only a handful of times. Again, not in the market. And I'd be lying if I said I've never put any thought into what song I want to use for my first dance. To anyone who doesn't know me well (or has looked over my shoulder while I'm at work browsing Gilt Bridal), I probably seem like the kind of girl who's dying to get married. But actually, if Kris, my boyfriend of nearly four years, proposed tomorrow, I'd say no . Not because I don't love him. I do. And not because I can't imagine spending the rest of my life with him. I can. And not because I'm morally opposed to marriage or anything. I'm not. I just happen to think 27, my current age, is too young to say I do . Which is why I lo...

—Mark 3:25 TODAY’S DARE Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement. If your mate is not ready for this, then write out your own personal rules to "fight" by. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs.If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.

Love and all that jazz...: Women are from venus and men are from mars ! : Hey readers .Lately my head is so full.I'm busy all the time assignments,exams approaching.Sorting out the car,getting insurance,life cover....

Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. —Philippians 2:4 TODAY’S DARE Demonstrate love by willingly choosing to give in to an area of disagreement between you and your spouse. Tell them you are putting their preference first. Day 12: Love lets the other win

　 Day 5: Love is not rude He who blesses his friend with a loud voice early in the morning, it will be reckoned a curse to him. —Proverbs 27:14 TODAY’S DARE Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspective only.

　 Day 3: Love is not selfish —Romans 12:10 TODAY’S DARE Whatever you put your time, energy, and money into will become more important to you. It’s hard to care for something you are not investing in. Along with restraining from negative comments, buy your spouse something that says, "I was thinking of you today." Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor.

Have you ever felt like your relationship is slipping through your fingers and there is no way to fix it.I have and so ever so now and then I try to use my secret weapon and I have taken time out today to share it with my readers.If you argue all the time and it seems both or one of you just want out.Don''t give up yet! I challenge you to do the love dare for 40 days and then decide. So I will be loading a dare everyday and if you wana join me -you have nothing to loose and everything to gain.Love and a beautiful relationship ,the type you have always dreamed of . Tips: Before starting watch the movie Fireproof

6 Ways to Re-Ignite Your Relationship by Stephanie Sarkis Need to reignite that spark? Here's how. Published on January 7, 2012 by Stephanie Sarkis, Ph.D. in Here, There, and Everywhere The sparks of love (or the "romantic phase") in the first two years of a relationship usually wind down and turn into long-burning embers.  But what if those embers need a little stoking to get the fire going again?  Here are some ways to reignite that spark. 1.  Write a love letter to your partner. In our busy, fast-paced lives, it can be too easy to forget what made you fall in love with your partner in the first place.  Take some time out to write what you appreciate about your partner, and why you are still in love with him or her. You'll enjoy writing the letter, and recalling those good feelings will make you see your partner in a new light. 2.  Join an activity together. Studies show that when you and your partner learn a new activity together, it st...