Relationship dilemma

Hi guys today I am sad.I mean really sad.Guess today out there I need your advice. Let me tell you all about my relationship dilema.Well I just felt down, after chatting to my bf he refuses to come down to my place and spend some time with me.I found it so sad that my bf wont want to spend time with me.We had just recently spent a weekend away with friends and now it's back to square one.I seem to always go to his place where we never alone ,all we do is watch movies with his family,go to a mall or he plays with his sister's kids.I am sure other couples make special alone time for eachother,but for me it seems he spends most of his time -away from me even though I am there.I often wonder if this is all that there is and I should be grateful and shut up at least someone loves me.Is that love or is it just I am seriously sick of your face after ten years of dating.I want to get married so bad just to spend time alone in his company and have our own place.He responds to that saying that marriage is a turnoff and changes the subject very quickly.I really often dread going to spend weekends there knowing I'll get about 2 hours alone time with him.Does that really even make sense at all or does running the run of the mill year in and out just harbour regret and resentment.I know I love this man and in my heart he is the one but when will he man up,marry me and spend time alone with me like "normal couples" do ? Guys out there give me some advice.Girls what would you do ?

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