Love and all that jazz...

MOVE ON! Here’s a thought (I DON'T WANT YOU TO DO THIS, JUST THINK ABOUT IT). Get into the front seat of your car, then turn your body around. Knees on the front seat with your back on the steering wheel, your face looking toward the trunk. Stay in that position and try to drive the car forward. It’s impossible, right? If by some miracle you do manage to go forward I guarantee you won't get very far. If the car represents our lives then the way we are sitting in the driver's seat represents the way we approach it. It’s really hard to move on when you’re looking the wrong way. There is nothing wrong with the car... what is wrong is the position some of us are sitting in, meaning there is nothing wrong with your life, and you’re just facing the wrong direction. There are many things that can cause you to be out of alignment with life, but instead of focusing on the many, I’d like to talk about one thing in particular... And that is GUILT. ... I was talking to a friend...

Did you ever feel your bf or your husband just made you feel like nothing.They never said anything to you but their actions and their behaviour spoke volumes.Really guys out there .IT HURTS! Like just the other day my bf just told me it's cool by him if he sees me in a months time.What? Really ? Did you just say that? You see men tend to speak in the forms of jokes ,they tend to make situations lighter to handle, in their minds.When in reality it seems to the person on the receiving end,terribly worse. In the girls mind (my mind at the time) What is he saying? He needs space,he wants alone time,is he cheating or what is happening? You see women tend to over anylise every move and word our partner tends to make or say. Yes,that might seem crazy but in reality we are little explosians, waiting to explode why- Boys you may ask? Why? Because we invested to much in you. We willingly give our time,devotion,bodies,lives and importantly our hearts. So in fact, if you skrew up -you ruin...

So after reading a couple of relationship blogs, I've come across two under lying topics-How do I get someone to love me ? and How to maintain your relationship. I think its true ,that 2 topics is the most important to human beings finding happiness and keeping it.Sometimes we feel like we chasing happiness and it won't reside with us but floats and flutters away like a butterfly.Can we keep up with that chase? I mean honestly with all the hype,media and technological interaction.Thus it can either make you better or worsen the situation we all find ourselves in. The media today depicts us to be certain catogries.You must be thin.tall,sexy,rich or intelligent.You must own a car and be able to socialise without fail.Yet we all know we aren't, perfect people living in little boxes.We just, us competing with what we envision for ourselves-that's the hardest dream to live up to- our own! So here it goes! How to find that special person.... 1. Check the company you k...

Love and all that jazz...: Women are from venus and men are from mars ! : Hey readers .Lately my head is so full.I'm busy all the time assignments,exams approaching.Sorting out the car,getting insurance,life cover....

Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. —Philippians 2:4 TODAY’S DARE Demonstrate love by willingly choosing to give in to an area of disagreement between you and your spouse. Tell them you are putting their preference first. Day 12: Love lets the other win

　 Day 4: Love is thoughtful —Psalm 139:17–18 How precious also are Your thoughts to me. . . .How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand. 　 TODAY’S DARE   Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

　 Day 2: Love is kind   Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. —Ephesians 4:32 TODAY’S DARE In addition to saying nothing negative to your spouse again today, do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness.

　 Day 1: Love is patient —Ephesians 4:2 NIV TODAY’S DARE The first part of this dare is fairly simple. Although love is communicated in a number of ways, our words often reflect the condition of our heart. For the next day, resolve to demonstrate patience and to say nothing negative to your spouse at all. If the temptation arises, choose not to say anything. It’s better to hold your tongue than to say something you’ll regret Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

6 Ways to Re-Ignite Your Relationship by Stephanie Sarkis Need to reignite that spark? Here's how. Published on January 7, 2012 by Stephanie Sarkis, Ph.D. in Here, There, and Everywhere The sparks of love (or the "romantic phase") in the first two years of a relationship usually wind down and turn into long-burning embers.  But what if those embers need a little stoking to get the fire going again?  Here are some ways to reignite that spark. 1.  Write a love letter to your partner. In our busy, fast-paced lives, it can be too easy to forget what made you fall in love with your partner in the first place.  Take some time out to write what you appreciate about your partner, and why you are still in love with him or her. You'll enjoy writing the letter, and recalling those good feelings will make you see your partner in a new light. 2.  Join an activity together. Studies show that when you and your partner learn a new activity together, it st...