TURN HURT INTO HOPE !

I haven't blogged in a while was off sick with a bug in my stomach ughhh wasnt nice but I have survived.Anyway guys there is some news I would like to share with you guys but I will let you know when the time is right.Things in my life have been going rather good lately.Relationship wise ,we are mending what was broken,working on past faults and re-engineering what needs to be changed on a daily basis.When and if you want your relationship to work you need to start by changing yourself and  all the things which stand in your way of being truly happy.I had to learn this the hard way.I mean had to forgive things ,that happenend ten years ago.Release hurt that people had done to me.Forgive the ugly words said and the resentment.

Today has been a week of me considering all this and I have to truly let go of those things before I can grow into what I really want to be in my relationship and as a a complete whole person.You see it wasn't those people who said those things to me ,that were keeping me behind.It was me, allowing them.So I decided -Here and no further.I will not let people master my life with negative talk and actions.
You as a person start sailing your own ship.And ask God to be your captain.

So I would like to  encourage you out there .So many of us are hurting and seems to happen we hurt continually.Continously people hurt us with words and their actions.And often it's the same people with the same behaviours.My advice we cant change their behaviour but we can change our approach and reaction to their behaviour.I started to maximise myself,my dreams and my destiny.It helps trust me.

If you excelling -you wont even think about negative attitude robbers.

So go out there live it up .I dare you!

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