Love and all that jazz...

MOVE ON! Here’s a thought (I DON'T WANT YOU TO DO THIS, JUST THINK ABOUT IT). Get into the front seat of your car, then turn your body around. Knees on the front seat with your back on the steering wheel, your face looking toward the trunk. Stay in that position and try to drive the car forward. It’s impossible, right? If by some miracle you do manage to go forward I guarantee you won't get very far. If the car represents our lives then the way we are sitting in the driver's seat represents the way we approach it. It’s really hard to move on when you’re looking the wrong way. There is nothing wrong with the car... what is wrong is the position some of us are sitting in, meaning there is nothing wrong with your life, and you’re just facing the wrong direction. There are many things that can cause you to be out of alignment with life, but instead of focusing on the many, I’d like to talk about one thing in particular... And that is GUILT. ... I was talking to a friend...

Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers. —3 John 2 TODAY’S DARE Begin praying today for your spouse’s heart. Pray for three specific areas where you desire for God to work in your spouse’s life and in your marriage. Day 16: Love intercedes

—1 Peter 3:7 TODAY’S DARE Choose a way to show honor and respect to your spouse that is above your normal routine. It may be holding the door for her. It might be putting his clothes away for him. It may be the way you listen and speak in your communication. Show your mate that he or she is highly esteemed in your eyes. Day 15: Love is honorable Live with your wives in an understanding way . . . and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life.

I have a confession to make: I look at wedding dresses online. A lot. I'm not in the market, but I just really enjoy virtually browsing through the gowns and imagining what I would look like in them. I'm guilty of doing the same with engagement rings, though only a handful of times. Again, not in the market. And I'd be lying if I said I've never put any thought into what song I want to use for my first dance. To anyone who doesn't know me well (or has looked over my shoulder while I'm at work browsing Gilt Bridal), I probably seem like the kind of girl who's dying to get married. But actually, if Kris, my boyfriend of nearly four years, proposed tomorrow, I'd say no . Not because I don't love him. I do. And not because I can't imagine spending the rest of my life with him. I can. And not because I'm morally opposed to marriage or anything. I'm not. I just happen to think 27, my current age, is too young to say I do . Which is why I lo...

" Marriage is Honorable Among All "  Hebrews 13:4-6 4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge. 5 Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." 6 So we may boldly say: "The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?" The world is lost and confused when it comes to the subject of marriage. It has taken what is lovely and turned it into something cheap and ugly. Having been devalued, it is easily discarded. Rich and Wendi, you will stand apart in the midst of this culture―husband and wife made holy before God and man―united in covenant before a watching world. Everyone wants to know if you really mean what you say. Everyone wants to see if it really works. Try, as our culture does, to erode and dilute marriage, Christian marriage is a thing to be admired, and eve...

—Mark 3:25 TODAY’S DARE Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement. If your mate is not ready for this, then write out your own personal rules to "fight" by. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs.If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.

Love and all that jazz...: Women are from venus and men are from mars ! : Hey readers .Lately my head is so full.I'm busy all the time assignments,exams approaching.Sorting out the car,getting insurance,life cover....

　 Day 4: Love is thoughtful —Psalm 139:17–18 How precious also are Your thoughts to me. . . .How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand. 　 TODAY’S DARE   Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

　 Day 3: Love is not selfish —Romans 12:10 TODAY’S DARE Whatever you put your time, energy, and money into will become more important to you. It’s hard to care for something you are not investing in. Along with restraining from negative comments, buy your spouse something that says, "I was thinking of you today." Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor.

　 Day 2: Love is kind   Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. —Ephesians 4:32 TODAY’S DARE In addition to saying nothing negative to your spouse again today, do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness.

　 Day 1: Love is patient —Ephesians 4:2 NIV TODAY’S DARE The first part of this dare is fairly simple. Although love is communicated in a number of ways, our words often reflect the condition of our heart. For the next day, resolve to demonstrate patience and to say nothing negative to your spouse at all. If the temptation arises, choose not to say anything. It’s better to hold your tongue than to say something you’ll regret Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

Have you ever felt like your relationship is slipping through your fingers and there is no way to fix it.I have and so ever so now and then I try to use my secret weapon and I have taken time out today to share it with my readers.If you argue all the time and it seems both or one of you just want out.Don''t give up yet! I challenge you to do the love dare for 40 days and then decide. So I will be loading a dare everyday and if you wana join me -you have nothing to loose and everything to gain.Love and a beautiful relationship ,the type you have always dreamed of . Tips: Before starting watch the movie Fireproof