6 Ways to Re-Ignite Your Relationship by Stephanie Sarkis Need to reignite that spark? Here's how. Published on January 7, 2012 by Stephanie Sarkis, Ph.D. in Here, There, and Everywhere The sparks of love (or the "romantic phase") in the first two years of a relationship usually wind down and turn into long-burning embers. But what if those embers need a little stoking to get the fire going again? Here are some ways to reignite that spark. 1. Write a love letter to your partner. In our busy, fast-paced lives, it can be too easy to forget what made you fall in love with your partner in the first place. Take some time out to write what you appreciate about your partner, and why you are still in love with him or her. You'll enjoy writing the letter, and recalling those good feelings will make you see your partner in a new light. 2. Join an activity together. Studies show that when you and your partner learn a new activity together, it st...